Princess vs Frog (Combating Bullying)

We have been enjoying the busyness of back to school.
Though it has been quite hectic (wasn't I supposed to have some down time?) we were all settling into our routines and doing very nicely, we have hit a bump.

Miss K has experienced a friendship hiccup.
She says they are going to "break-up".  
When asked what happened, she says that her friend just told her not to talk to her anymore.
After the long weekend, we thought it would have ended.
But it didn't.

Her friend would not let her play with her, and went to play with another friend of Miss K's.
So now it's 2 against 1.
This morning we decided to talk to her about it.

I had Sir Spoil-Her-Highness tell her about a time that his friends didn't want to play with him.
He just went to the other side of the playground and played alone.
Within 10 minutes his friends apologized and wanted to play again.

He then asked Miss K
What are you? A Princess, or a Frog.
Princess of course.
How are Princesses and Frogs different?
Looks, dresses,  green large eyes and legs.
How do frogs eat?
They catch bugs with their sticky tongues.
How do Princesses eat?
They use a fork or spoon.
What does a frog do if a Frog eats a yucky tasting bug?
It's stuck to their tongue.
What does a Princess do if She eats something yucky?
I don't know.
They spit it on their fork or spoon and place it on the edge of their plate.
Now, what does this have to do with being bullied?
If someone says something mean, you can be a Frog and keep it stuck inside.
Or you can be a Princess and spit it out.  Do not internalize it.

I am hoping this will be the best way to resolve things.  I am very much against bullying.  The next step will be to go to the teacher and/or parents.  Here's hoping. Pin It

First Day of School part II

Here is the letter Misses D and E's teacher sent home.  I love it!

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Sabbath Worship

During Sacrament Meeting I try to take advantage of the quiet and read my scriptures. This hasn't really happened for 20 years. I get distracted by the people sitting next to me for some reason.
I am currently serving as ward chorustor. This has afforded me a chance to worship more fully during the Sacrament. 

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D.E.A.R.

Summer reading is such an important thing to do.  Kids can fall behind in reading in just those short busy months. 
Each summer we have done our library's summer reading program.  We go to the Summer Kick Off.  Get the bookmarks, have the kids keep track of their reading, go pick out the prizes each week.  But it seems like we still don't get the reading in that we need.
This summer I finally found something that is working (for the time being).  We have a set time (11:00am) for what is called "Drop Everything And Read".  D.E.A.R.
I have found that it can't be a thing I tell the kids to go do.  I have to be sitting with them and either listen to them, or read to them.  (Duh!  I know!  I am just wishing I could give assignments and then go do my own chore/project.)  After I finally succumbed to this fact, it has been fun.  I have been able to find some books I either haven't read, or great favorites. 
We do still read every night before bed.  That will never stop, I'm sure.  Master A, and Grateful Graduate J, who are 15 and 18, are the only ones who don't get read to.  And that stopped when A was 13, and J when she was 14.    Sir Spoil-Her-Highness reads downstairs  (currently Lord of the Rings), and I read upstairs (American Girl books).  Pin It

Making Nursery Matter

Nursery has been sort of hectic lately.

We have a very large nursery, about 40 kids.

It is separated into 4 classes, 2 classes for the older, 2 for the younger.

One of the older classes didn't have a teacher for 7 months.

We had substitutes or combined the classes.

Finally the calling was filled.  Hooray!

Sir Spoil-Her-Highness has been given another calling, so he is currently doing double duty.

He really loves the nursery! So he is fine with it.

A couple was found to take our class, yet another couple teaching nursery moved.

We have taken their class.

The most important thing is to love the children.

Second most important is consistency.

A routine is very important to children.

Be there.  If you can't, then try to get the same substitute each time.

This past Sunday I was asked to do a training for our Nursery Leaders.

I discussed the importance of having a lesson.

Even 18 month olds can sit through a lesson.

Here is our routine:

We sit on carpet square samples.

Every child who wants gets to say a prayer.  

Sometimes this takes the most time.

We give the lesson straight out of the manual. It takes 2 minutes, max.

Only church approved coloring pages are used.

 

I also talked about singing time.

We have had a singing leader for quite some time.

Yet she is ready for a break (pregnancy, you know)

Since we need teachers quite a bit, the Nursery Leaders will do their own singing.

When I was Primary Chorister, I would go into the nursery for singing time each week.

But with 4 nurseries, there is no way that would work.

I spoke to them about what we will be doing.

We will have something for them to pick songs from.

http://pinterest.com/ksilvan/lds-primary-singing-time/ has great ideas.

(Our current singing leader has a gift bag with different props that go with songs the children choose.

A spider toy - Itsy Bitsy Spider, star - Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, bus - Wheels on the Bus, etc)

I printed out some song books for the leaders.

I know that I forget songs I had in mind sometimes.  

I thought this would help.

The other thing I spoke about is remembering to use the child's name.

We will have twins in our class, so I'm going to bring labels to write their names on, and stick it to their backs.

I have been trying to learn who is who for a year and a half now, and have failed miserably.

I'm hoping that being with them each week for a while will help.

Their mom dresses them the same all the time.

Which is so fun to do (I do that myself, and/or fix their hair the same).

But it doesn't help me at all.

During free play, we play with them on the floor.

I will admit that Sir Spoil-Her-Highness is much better at this than I am.

I do the bubbles, coloring page, and lesson, and he plays with them.

He does a wonderful thing, which he did with our children.

He gets some toys (Little People, dinosaurs, Buzz Lightyear) and acts out scripture stories.

He will act out a story from the lesson, if there is one.

Or he will just tell a story that comes to mind.

I do enjoy the fact that Buzz Lightyear is always the hero.

Ammon, Samuel the Lamenite, Alma.

Well, until he went missing.

Now he uses a firefighter.

Very fitting!

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